Giving a best man toasts can be one of the hardest things you will ever be asked to do in your life. It may seem like a small thing giving a best man toast but this is one of the things that your best friend, the groom or bride, will remember for the rest of there lives so the pressure on the person giving the best man toasts is amazing.

Here are several tips to help you get through giving the best man toasts.

1. The groom chose you because he had the confidence in you to give a great best man toasts so have the confidence in yourself too.

2. Don't make it too long. This day isn't about you it's about the bride and groom. Try to aim for 2 to 4 minutes.

3. Have the best man toasts prepared beforehand if you try to "wing it" and do it on the spot your just going to mess up. It also gives you time to be more confident as you will have practiced the speech in advance.

4. Include the following in your best man toasts

Tell everyone how you know the bride and groom, and how long you've known them.

Thank everyone for coming. If someone's helped pay for the wedding thank them by saying something along the lines of "for making this possible" DON'T say "thanks for paying". Propose a toast, after all it is called a best man toasts so this is the reason your there.Make sure you drink to your own toast. 5.Unless you know everyone there and that they won't be offended keep it clean.

Giving a best man toasts should be an honor so try to treat it as such and you'll be fine.

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